Don’t command your partner like a child and stop acting like a goliath! Some ladies find it difficult to get suitors simply because they are too Authoritative and Domineering?
I bet you, no guy will come near such
ladies except they want to marry half-baked guys (Mumu). An average man naturally carries ego; they
always like to be respected, honoured and worshiped, acting in full capacity as
a man even when there is nothing to show for it. Apology to men!
Though I advocate Gender Equality but
the campaign, especially in marriage is ‘Complementing’ not ‘Competing’. My dream
is to raise a new generation of women who can take their stand, discover their
purpose, build their potential, assume leadership positions and participate in
the development process; females who will be the best in their chosen careers
as well as complementing their male counterparts.
However, if the woman is becoming uncontrollable,
then the campaign is no more Gender Equality. Even if you are older than him,
more educated than him, richer and wealthier than him, influential and popular
than him, have larger experience and exposure than him, all these are no proof
to be authoritative.
Statistically, the number of single
ladies and divorcee increases every day and this could be traceable to females’
superiority and authoritativeness in relationship. Listen to this, you may
never find a loving guy to submit to but you will surely meet a guy who will
love you if you submit to him. Your duty is to Submit and his responsibility is
to Love. The fact that you finish from the same school, the same department at
the same time, work in the same organization, earn the same salary is no basis
to disrespect him.
Have a fulfilling relationship!
Teniola Kehinde
Your Success Partner
© YoungPaths INT’L
